Billy's melanoma fight

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Our dads name is Bill Fitzgerald. Otherwise known as Billy, Fitzy or Purse. Dad has been fighting Melanoma since 2009. Unfortunately he has now been given a timeframe of just months left. Anyone who knows Dad knows he's the guy in the background, getting the work done without recognition. Never one to ask others for help, but always the first to help out. Known for his love of the land, horses, dogs and the sport of polocrosse Dad has been fighting melanoma since his initial diagnosis in 2009. He had an itchy mole removed from his back after his partner Ali caught him scratching it on a doorway. Doctors were quick off the mark and immediately removed the lymph nodes from his underarms and continued to monitor him. In 2012 Dad had a small part of his left lung removed. In 2013 more tumours appeared and he headed to Westmead Cancer centre to begin treatment on Braf inhibitors. The tumours disappeared and life went back to normal......until 2014, when tumours were discovered in Dad’s brain. This time he had stereotactic radiation. And back to living life normally again. Then 2015 – they reappeared in the brain. This time the best option was brain surgery. Amazingly only 8 months later Dad played in the NSW masters team at the 2016 Polocrosse Nationals. A scan in early 2016 showed what appeared to be more activity in the brain, so surgery again. Thankfully the previous tumours were inactive and there were no new ones. This time Dad and Ali probably had a good 18 months before it all began again. Tumours appeared in lymph nodes in Dad’s chest. This was when he started immunotherapy. In the past 6 years, Dad has had every time and combination of immunotherapy available with various degrees of success. A particularly resistant tumour in his chest was treated with radiation in late 2022. Unfortunately in 2023 he developed colitis as a result of the immunotherapy treatment. Now back on a braf inhibitor Dad is running out of options and time. He has been told his life expectancy is considered months, not years. Dad’s doctor has moved heaven and earth to get him into a clinical trial in Sydney as soon as possible. This is not expected to extend his lifespan but to make sure what time he has left is better quality. Not only will this involve travel and accommodation expenses, Dad and Ali are both self employed, so no work means no income. Between the three of us, Dad now has 5 grandkids who absolutely adore him. We all want to spend some more time with him, making precious memories. He has said he simply wants to ride and enjoy his horses for as long as he is physically able. Please consider helping our Dad out so he can enjoy what time he has left without forcing himself back to work. Many thanks Toby, Caitlin & Emily
Update
25 Mar 2024
Now the dust has settled from Billy's fundraiser/party we can slow down and take a breath. The night was a great success, raising $18,500. It was also a great night to catch up with a lot of people Billy hadn't seen for quite a while as well as friends and family members. We made the trip to Blacktown shortly before the party to discuss the trial options. Dr Matt Carlino who has seen Billy in Sydney since 2012 gave Billy all the details, good and bad so he could make an informed decision on where to go from here. In very basic terms, the extra time the trial treatment would buy (and that's only if it worked) would be a matter of months. There is a long list of possible side effects which may not occur, but there is also a couple of definite side effects that would be bad enough to require heavy medication and possible hospitalisation. Billy's decision, again in very basic terms, came down to his remaining time feeling quite good, able to carry on almost as normal or extending that time slightly but feeling ill and miserable. He has now made his decision and discussed it with family. Billy won't be undertaking the trial. At this point in time he is off all cancer treatments and remains only on painkillers. He is feeling pretty good, even heading off to do a bit of stockwork a few days a week, just to "keep the dogs working" in his words. Riding when the body is able, Billy would like to see if he could play a polox carnival or 2 this year as he has a really nice 4yo he wants to play. Several times he has tried to put his appreciation into words for those who have given time and funds to help out - as all of you would know that's an extremely difficult and overwhelming task. For now we're just trying to do life as normal. Billy has a little wishlist, probably not quite the usual bucketlist, but whatever makes him happy - be it slashing paddocks, fencing or going to the zoo!
Update
05 Mar 2024
Check out auction items here! https://www.facebook.com/share/PdqT3v9uhC2AYy2q/?mibextid=9VsGKo
Update
29 Feb 2024
Don't forget the Beers with Billy event 4pm 9th March. We're starting to get our auction items organised and Erin Batt will be there selling tickets in her super raffle with a dozen awesome prizes. Food and bar provided or bring your own. Plenty of room to camp.
Update
10 Feb 2024
A quick update for everyone regarding Billy's progress. We've been contacted regarding the clinical trial this past week. It's based in Blacktown but at this stage it's not 100% certain it will be suitable for Billy. We will head up for a face to face with the oncologist running the trial on Wednesday 28th Feb.
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06 Feb 2024
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06 Feb 2024
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06 Feb 2024
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06 Feb 2024
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Update
04 Feb 2024
From Ali's FB page: Well its been a week and then some. A little over a fortnight since Billy received the unwelcome news from the oncologist. A little under a week since Caitlin, Emily & Toby stepped up and decided to put it put there and see what they could do to help their dad. And what a response! We have been totally astounded, amazed and overwhelmed by the support out there. I've been asked a lot of questions this week and before I attempt to express our gratitude I'd just like to use this opportunity to let everyone know exactly what is going on *Billy has been fighting this for over 12 years. Until very recently he has never had any illness or symptoms from the cancer itself. He's been on pretty much every treatment option there is for melanoma, some quote tolerable, some with very crap side effects. *Billy is someone who ALWAYS had a big hat, long sleeves and pants on. Melanoma doesn't discriminate. *Billy is still quite well. He has just developed a cough caused by a tumour pressing on his windpipe. He gets fatigued easily but that is generally due to the current treatment and the recent diagnosis of type 2 diabetes(cos we didn't have enough going on) *He's been accepted into a clinical trial in Sydney. We don't know much at this stage but believe it will be at Westmead. * It's expensive to be unwell. Especially in rural areas. Even here in Australia where even though we whinge, we have a great health care system. *Any funds raised will be used for both treatment related expenses and will help.out with general living expenses while we are both unable to work. * If you know Billy, you'd be able to imagine how hard it is for him to accept help, physically and financially. He has decided that any funds remaining after all is said and done he would like to donate to the cancer centre in Wagga. It's a place we're very familiar with and it's astounding and quite scary how many people you run into there that you know. The words thank you do not seem sufficient for all of you who have donated online. And then there's the others who have rung or dropped by, offering more support. Tomorrow the cattle donated for the cattle drive will be sold at Wagga. This has totally blown us away. When we were told about it, we thought it would be great to get 6, amazing to get 12. From what I'm hearing those numbers have been blown out of the water. A special thanks needs to go to Shane Piper who got the ball rolling on this, doing all the hard yards, and AWN Wilks McKean who have backed Shane all the way and waived their fees. Wagga city council have also waived yard fees. I'll be over there tomorrow and I suspect it's going to be an emotional afternoon. AND ......we'd like everyone to try to make it to Jugiong on the 9th March. It was touted as a fundrasing night and that will still happen, but we've kinda rolled it into a massive life celebration for Billy Fitzgerald (although he may be a little cranky with us when he finds out!) So if you've ever been mates with Billy. Worked for, with or employed Billy. Played polocrosse with or against him, been coached, or possibly yelled at by him. Campdrafted with him. Had a beer with him. Talked dogs with him. You're all invited! One catch though, he doesn't know yet and hopefully because he doesn't use FB we can keep it quiet for a little longer. We'll let everyone know the details soon.
Update
02 Feb 2024
Save the date - keep the 9th of March free! We'll be a having a get together - call it a reunion, a life celebration or just a party ? That night there will be an auction with a huge variety of items available. Dad said we were mad to start this page because we'd only raise a couple of thousand. It's always great to prove him wrong (because he's never wrong, just ask him?) So let's keep going and buy dad some more time. Keep following the oage for updates, we'll give you more details soon. And sssh! He doesn't actually know about this part yet?
DONATIONS107
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Katie Wills
Tue, 26 Mar 2024
$ 50
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Nicole Sullivan
Mon, 25 Mar 2024
$ 50
All the best Bill, love to all the Family
All the best Bill, love to all the Family
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Bernie Delaney & Michelle Grocott
Sun, 24 Mar 2024
$ 500
$ 500
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George Hancock
Sat, 9 Mar 2024
$ 50
Billy and family my thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time . Great memories from my Polocrosse days winning the Jugiong A Grade in 1988 with Quandialla .
Billy and family my thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time . Great memories from my Polocrosse days winning the Jugiong A Grade in 1988 with Quandialla .
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Anonymous
Sun, 3 Mar 2024
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Caroline Spittle
Mon, 26 Feb 2024
$ 2000
Dear Billy, We are on your sidelines and wishing you all the best for this op and coming out the one-side for a great recovery ❤️‍? Love Caroline and Rosie
Dear Billy, We are on your sidelines and wishing you all the best for this op and coming out the one-side for a great recovery ❤️‍? Love Caroline and Rosie
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Scott Sunnucks
Thu, 22 Feb 2024
$ 100
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Lindy Davis
Fri, 16 Feb 2024
$ 50
Sending all my strength, Good luck old mate ?
Sending all my strength, Good luck old mate ?
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Frank Smith
Fri, 16 Feb 2024
$ 100
All the best Billy, Frank & Julie Smith
All the best Billy, Frank & Julie Smith
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Anonymous
Thu, 15 Feb 2024
$ 200
$ 200
Fundraising for
Bill Fitzgerald
Funds banked to:
ITF William Fitzgerald

Campaign creator
TC&EF
Toby, Cait & Emily Fitzgerald
Jugiong, NSW
Created Jan 2024

$95,125 raised

From 107 Donations
TARGET $40,000

Please support this cause

AUD
$
Fundraising for
Bill Fitzgerald
Funds banked to:
ITF William Fitzgerald
Campaign creator
TC&EF
Toby, Cait & Emily Fitzgerald
Jugiong, NSW
Created Jan 2024